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The V4LOVE safety promise

Safe by design, from the first hello.

Your number stays yours until you've met in person and you both say yes. Here's every way we protect you.

In an emergency, call 911.

Then tell the site lead, and report it in the app.

Verified people

Every member passes an ID and selfie check, and a trained reviewer checks each profile by hand.

Private until it's mutual

Only a photo, first name and age are public. Faith, values and more photos unlock only after you approve a request.

First meetings while serving

The only way to meet is a volunteer shift with a site lead there the whole time. Arrive and leave on your own and stay with the group.

Contact details stay protected

Phone numbers, emails, links, handles and money talk are blocked in chat. Contacts are shared only after you've met and both agree.

Messages are screened automatically

Each message is checked for contact details and payment requests before it's delivered. Blocked attempts are kept for our review team.

Report and block anywhere

From any profile, chat or shift. The person is never told who reported them. Urgent reports get a response within 4 hours, others within 24.

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The V4LOVE Code

Every member agrees to it when they join.

  1. 1Treat everyone as made in God's image. Respect a "Not now."
  2. 2Meet only at volunteer shifts until you both confirm you've met.
  3. 3No contact details or money talk before you meet. After that, contact details are swapped only when you both agree.
  4. 4Show up when you say you will, follow the site lead, and report anything that feels off.
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